Are You Cool With This?

You could say something like, hey, how about would you like to continue discussing this on text? Here's my number. If not, it's cool, we can keep it here too. Or if she could say, actually I'm not crazy about that place, like how about this place? And I'd rather meet a little earlier, if that's cool, how about this time? So she can weigh in on the decision and she doesn't feel like the decision was already made for her - which is a great way to make her feel safe.