"Me, en, whenever youre going to pop off. N yo, yer tat lik to arguably, you probably spend in a good relationship, maximum 20 % of the time in conflict and 80 % of thetime in happiness and harmoniousness," he says. "I'm doing that to protect me. Its saying about you. It's about me." He also talks about being vulnerable around his wife - more than anybody else.
Women say they want a man who is open and willing to be vulnerable, but is this really true? Back in 2019, Shan participated in a YouTube discussion with Aba and Preach where they covered this very topic.The conversation amassed over 1.3M views and nearly 9000 comments. Two years later, Shan, Aba & Preach re-visit this under-represented dialogue about why some men don't yet feel safe to show their vulnerable side with their partners.