You Can't Hold Your Views of Reality Too Firmly

I'm reminded of just a lot of situations that I've been in where I'm like holding things quite tightly and then people are like, but what the way that you're seeing things doesn't fit like something that's very important to me or that's real in my world. And when you do it can be very jarring, right? And alienating and everything you described, which is spot on. But the point is to get past that plateau might require it. The only way to know quote unquote is to actually go to that part of reality, poke it, you know, tread over it,. Ignore the narratives about it, maybe not ignore, but in the context of the narratives