She understands their relationship to be flirtatious, and she is kind of holding out for this guy for years without him. It's just that he's not what he's thinking about before she finally goes and gets married. She gives him a million opportunities to interject and say, hey, miss kenton, would like to get, i would like to butler you. Is that? Can we do more butler? Innuendo, is that a thing that we can figure out?"