Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! Join Jimmy and Karen Evans as we unpack the difference between love and enabling in relationships. We get real about codependency, sharing personal stories, and tackling tough issues like addiction and boundaries. Tune in for a fresh perspective on love and relationships!
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Takeaways
- Enabling is doing something that encourages your spouse to continue in a negative behavior.
- Codependency is a relationship where both partners are unhealthy and dependent on each other's unhealth.
- Setting healthy boundaries is crucial in preventing enabling behavior.
- True love means loving imperfections but not enabling self-destruction.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction: Love vs Enabling
00:33 Enabling vs Codependency
01:02 Enabling in Extreme Situations
02:00 Setting Healthy Boundaries
03:24 Negative Behavior and Destructive Relationships04:20Entitlement and Self-Centeredness
05:44 Loving Imperfections but Not Enabling Self-Destruction
07:09 God's Resistance to Pride and Grace for the Humble
08:38 Taking Responsibility in Destructive Relationships
09:33 Manipulation and Enabling
11:02 Knowing Each Other's Past and Recognizing Red Flags
12:00 True Love: Telling the Truth and Taking Action
12:29 Resources and Help for Destructive Relationships
13:12 Conclusion
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