I Don't Even Know What to Say

The best thing you can do for somebody is to give them the gift of your time. Don't just spring on them a crazy conversation while they're in the middle like nine different things. If you're the one initiating it, ask them for a time nthat they can actually give you their attention. To be an incarnational listener means that people around you would describe you as a good listener. When people are upset with you, you're able to listen to them without being defensive. The goal of love is always to seek the good of the other person. How differently would your relationships now look if you were seeking their good instead of seeking your own good?