Do You Get Where I'm Coming From?

We have to get into a habit of communicating in a way that's curious and we're asking questions to our partner instead of outwardly blaming them. You got to come from the place of like expressing yourself, not attacking your partner. So what I'm trying to say is instead of saying, you always fuck up our sex life or you're never in the mood,. Some you need to get checked by a doctor. That's like an emotional attack, right?