How to Elicit Cooperation in a Child's State of Defiance

"i usually don't have quick fix phrases i that's like something i don't but i do have something that's pretty extraordinarily working really well um and so i'll share it with you if we understand something to be a prediction error," she says. "Tell yourself prediction error they were expecting one thing their brain was expecting one thing something else happened." She adds, "Nothing is more important than an adult seeing someone's pain in our old paradigmWe'd be like give me a break okay you might have cookies later today but for now it's carrots get over it"