The day after our precious daughter was born, healthy and happy at seven pounds three ounces. Yet what should have been one of the happiest, most serene days of my life was actually filled with tension. My colleague had written days before, friday, between one and two would be a bad time to have a baby, because i need you to be at this client meeting. Instinctively, i knew what to do. It was clearly a time to be there for my wife and new born child. So when asked whether i planned to attend, the meeting, i said with all the conviction i could muster, yes.