If they say, tell us what we're doing wrong and we'll fix it. What are they oing to say? Let's say that you guys always just ask me, when am i going to get married and when am I going to live up to my potential? That's correct. Two or three things, ok. So thisis the problem. The first is they'd start arguing with you. Like, oh, no, like, they'll deny. All of those thi that's bucket number one. It's a pretty big bucket. And here's the thing, they can promise it in that moment, but their brain his not transformed in that moment. Do you guys