Forgiveness in your heart and being able to move on is different than acting like it never happened you know what i mean. If an extended member of my family molested one of my girls i could come to a point where i would forgive that person but they would never be around my girls again. That's a logical smart decision right? And people mistake like forgiveness is bearing no ill will to somebody it's saying  i don't hope you die or i have a miserable life there's situations that where i'm not christlike because that's something that that yeah listen bro i would need god's grace to do thatbut see that is being a human right.