Good manners are a profound form of thoughtfulness, and you actually think about the person. If you don't have that, it's very hard to establish the foundation of a relationship. Sas like the focused awareness in a very directed way without an agenda. The third step, and the book has no more suggestions than this, is, i letting go. You can't commit to romance or any feeling, but you can commit to deepening intimacy.

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