Am I the Asshole for My Reaction to My Birthday Present?

I female 29 met Will male 36 years ago when she moved into a new apartment close to university. He was my next door neighbor and offered to help me put together flat pack furniture. We really hit it off and have been together ever since. Recently, he reached out to his ex-wife relatively recently,. about two years ago, to apologize for all the pain he put her through. She also apologized for her actions, but both agreed that they did not want to stay in contact. However, coming out of that, will told me that he has realized he never wants to get married again. I am happy just to be in a long-term committed relationship.