
Compersion Isn't Mandatory
Making Polyamory Work
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What's Going on With Your Partner?
You don't have to love every second of everything that your partner enjoys with another partner any more than you have to enjoy every band they like or every bizarre hobby they have. It's totally cool if you get into it with them or let their enthusiasm affect you but it's really okay if you either don't care or don't love it. Hearing your partner's sex noises with someone else might just be weird and awkward or it might cause you some pain for reasons I stated earlier. You might feel twanged by other things like seeing your partner post a picture of them and their other partner on social media or your partner sharing something else that's special between the two of you with their other partner
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