The Importance of Being Present in a Relationship

I think that the biggest issue that I see in men is that they're not doing their own work. They have all of these things they love, but maybe there's one thing missing or the attraction is just not. Most of the time the things that were put off by have nothing to do with the other person. It has to do with our reaction to the other person which comes from our own trauma,. From our own belief systems and from the things that have happened to us.