Sex and Intimacy - What Does It Look Like?

If both people are resentful and the conversations around sex and intimacy, or just in general, are just based on frustration. You have to tell them that's when we typically want to just word vomit. And something that he said, he said, I usually tell her that I wish things were how they used to be. And then she gets frustrated with that. It can often be perceived as you don't accept me as I am right now. Or I'm not good enough for you right now. Now I'm a wife. Like think about those words and how hurtful those words can be.