Episode 225: Grown Girl Divorce: Empowering Black Women Through Divorce with Kimberly A. Cook, Esq.
The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast
The Importance of Marriage in the Age of Divorce
"There is really, I think, a real kind of move towards saying there's no shame associated with me kind of ending my marriage," she says. "I don't need marriage to validate me or to kind of push me to the next level." She adds that women in general are being more analytical and asking questions about what they're looking for.
The divorce experience isn’t a cookie-cutter one for everyone. Sure, the process might look the same, but economics, culture, and race can impact how different people experience divorce.
Kimberly Cook’s Grown Girl Divorce platform seeks to educate and empower Black women through divorce, as their divorce experience can be very specific and different from that of white women. I am pleased to welcome Kimberly as a guest on the podcast this week! During our conversation, Kimberly helps highlight Black women's experiences and challenges during divorce.
Kimberly A. Cook, Esq. is a divorce attorney, mediator, and founder of Grown Girl Divorce, LLC, a divorce resource company. She is known for successfully negotiating complex financial and custody matters while helping her clients navigate their next steps forward.
Featured topics include:
- Why and when Kimberly created Grown Girl Divorce (4:47)
- Kimberly helps unpack divorce rate (41%) and marriage rate (17%) stats for Black women (13:20)
- How come staying in a marriage “for your children” isn’t good for them (22:03)
- There is strength in community, and being a part of a community reminds you that you are not alone in both challenging and great times (41:49)
- The ploy of creating a “unified front” in co-parenting and divorce (46:11)
Learn more about Kimberly A. Cook, Esq.:
Kimberly A. Cook, Esq. is a divorce attorney, Mediator, and founder of Grown Girl Divorce, LLC, a divorce resource company. She is known for successfully negotiating complex financial and custody matters while helping her clients navigate their next steps forward. Kimberly’s expertise and her unique ability to disseminate complex information in a relatable way has made her a sought-after divorce coach, speaker, and podcaster. She truly believes that everyone deserves to be in healthy and happy relationships and is on a mission to educate and empower others to make that happen.
Kimberly earned her B.A. from Spelman College and her law degree from The Catholic University of America. She is a Fellow of the Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, the country’s premier organization for family law practitioners, and an active member of American Bar Association, Jack and Jill of America, Inc., Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, and the Economic Club of Chicago. Kimberly also serves on several boards including, The Lilac Tree, the DePaul Schiller DuCanto & Fleck Family Law Center, and Old St. Mary’s Catholic School.
She has been featured in various publications including, The Chicago Daily Law Bulletin, Chicago Lawyer Magazine, Crain’s Chicago, Black Enterprise, Thrive Global, and Business Insider. In recognition of her hard work and dedication to the practice, Kimberly is the recipient of several notable awards including Crain’s Chicago Notable Minorities in Law, Super Lawyers, and Best Lawyers In America.
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