Relationships - Is He Scared?

I felt defensive right if he was kind of getting critical with me and I was just what happens right when someone gets critical and it calls out the defenses of the other person. That's the real human natural response because at the time like I'm telling you, when I was leading this workshop it was years, years, years later. So I want to say it was at least 10 years later that I was having the insight of like, oh, he was scared. Right. Well, my right with that. Woo, it's like a mind blower that insight changes everything.