I Don't Care What the Fuck We Have to Do

"I was trying to be the cast of Barney Miller. Like I was having a 70s party with cocktail vices," he says. "My parents would look at their own shit and go, What is this? What's going on?" The first time he met his ex-boyfriend when he was four: "He comes in and I get down low and puts his arms out." His sister Pam got married to Marty who later turned out to be a chronic liar.