The Importance of Having a Shared Goal

LZ Granderson: We both want a happy, healthy relationship. And there are a lot of ways that we're different that seem to make that difficult. But when we keep our goal in mind, it kind of helps steer us back to this shared goal. LZ: I find that people aren't actually in agreement with each other about the goals they have for their relationships. They get lulled into this complacency and it's just extremely dangerous," he says.