How Long Does It Serve to Hold a Space When Someone Is Just Repeating a Pattern Over and Over Again?

"Can I hold my own being in compassion? And then how pure can I bring just a tenderness like seeing the suffering behind that story and just see?" "It may be that it doesn't work for your body, heart and mind to keep holding the space for too long. But explore what would happen if you first deepened and just loved him," she says. 'That takes getting to that loving place'