The Importance of Curiousness in Relationships

There is an over-emphasis on, like you were saying earlier, on the intellect and the high avoidance of the negative. And so oftentimes you'll hear, I can never make you happy. That's exactly how it comes across as you develop as a child. So if we see relationships as less as important and we see ourselves managing ourselves as more important, then where we want to swim towards the green looks like that we need to be a little bit more curious about how we're doing with our people around us.