It's easy to look back at countless relationships that didn't work out and do the human thing, which is assign blame to ourselves. But i really do think we need to flip this. In my world, you are easy to love be of the way you are. To the person who has defined what love is for them, you areeasy to love because that person will know how they want to feel. And when you click with them, that is, you make them feel the way they want to feeling, and then you, of course, feel the way you want to Feel. You are easy love in that moment.