David Foster Wallace's graduation speech which is glorious and is sometimes available on the web sometimes not in various forms. I recently interviewed come out before this conversation interview Vinay Prasad the oncologist who's made a bunch of observations about what a beautiful essay an angry essay a screed about public health officials he feels failed their duty to prevent pandemics. We should be incredibly non-judgmental with our siblings and our spouse and our friends and our loved ones but at the public policy level if we do not judge and condemn and if we always forgive because there's no free will I think that comes at a cost.