Channeling Energy

I think the thing that was like landing and that's so applicable are these like deep, deep friendships that we can have with the opposite sex. They could be eros, it could be deep desire, the desire I have for other brothers and other sisters that I get really close to. And my eros, my deep, deep passion desire for them is that they would become like fully themselves, fully themselves in Christ,. Like formed in the ways of use and they would want that for me. We stop doing that when they hit puberty - repress repressed repress. The real true thing is channeling energy. How do you channel that? That's a real, that's energy