Should I Have a Financial Planning Discussion With My Partner?

"I'm afraid of hearing his excuses and making him feel bad," a woman wrote to her boyfriend. "There is no one value about money," she said, adding that men are socialized to associate their economic power with how they're regarded in the world. The patriarchy makes it hard for people to talk openly about financial issues - even if you love your partner so muchyou don't want them to know he's in debt. 'It might be that even the teskys easy going and loving and supportive, he doesn't want you to know'