The 4th Most Popular Reason Why I'm Drawn to My Partner

The fourth most popular answer for why i'm drawn to my partner was when i see them through the eyes of another. When we spend a lot of time with our person, we get very used to our lens. What we have perceived isn't necessarily the same as what everyone else has perceived. There might be wonderful things that other people appreciate about our partner that we either have come to take for granted or haven't seen from that angle. How does it apply to early stage dating? And how can you make this work in the early stages of dating?