How I Confronted Anger and Emotion in a Retreat

When she said to you or suggested maybe that you might be using this to avoid responsibilities in some sense, actually, no, you don't. And I think she knows you don't in a practical sense, but at some level, that was a concern for her. Did you feel, you probably understood what she was saying and felt it, but did you take it on board or were you able to relate it to her somehow? Yeah. You could feel it perceptually. This was months ago after that retreat. This little shift where we saw each other in that way. We said, oh, this is what's happening. The rest of that day we just spent together opening and talking