I don't know how to explain what a violation feels like I can tell you what the emotional toll and physical toll it took on me. Issues around people's imagery being used to that concern is something that affects so many people around the world. What I'm hoping to teach my son isn't like don't do this or don't do that it's like having empathy and understanding for how the world works just like when you're talking about race it's similar to that how we talk about gender.