The Importance of Accepting Your Partner

"I think it just means trust eroded. I think it means the quality score of our relationship just took a hit," he says. "If that's how I always show up, when he's suffering, three things large or small, over time, I'm going to lose all of the trust ... He won't invite me to be part of those conversations." The message is not about agreeing with your partner but showing up and being there for them in any way you can - even if they don't like it.