When We Have Needs, We Express Them

When we take responsibility for other people's feelings rather than our own actions, that is when our giving is mixed. And many men take it as a sign of their own inadequacy to find out how the woman's needs could be better met. As i mentioned earlier, we need to be sure, when we have needs, that we express those needs before going to strategies. I talked about this earlier. If we go immediately to strategy without the need, it's easy for other people to hear this as a demand,. It's when the need is expressed that it can make it easier to give.