The Gap Between What You Really Are and What You Think of Yourself

i talked before about trying to close the gap between what i what i say, and what i actually am and the way i behave. I think it's ok to talk about this stuff, but i don't want to fall into the trap of deluding myself into thinking that i am what i'm not. And so that's, that's why that tolstoy quote is valuable to me. In terms in terms of what i've tried to pass on to my kids,. Am, i drone on ad nausea about these subjects, and i think they tend to tune out pretty quickly. But one thing very early on that we did, i meanty, they're both very bright,