The Dandy Is a Way of Seduction

The opposite sex is a strange country. Men do not understand how women think, and vice versa. Each tries to make the other act more like a member of their own sex. Dandies may never try to please but in this one area, they have a pleasing effect. By adopting psychological traits of the opposite sex, they appeal to our inherent narcisism. This kind of mental transvestism can be a key element in seduction. It is a way of mesmerizing your victim. What is most seductive is often what is most repressed.