Is There a Purity of Ideology?

A lot of people want to own the folks they see as like, being against them, or being on the other side. But also, people don't want to be a dick to people that like, they like. The importance of interacting with people in person, like off line, is more difficult to do because we're still troted. It's so much easier to talk to someone and see the wold you shift, or even to humanize yourself to someone who is inclined to not thinking of you as someone talking to.