What Kind of Things Can They Say Instead?

I think almost everyone's been on the other side of such a moment, and it's the most painful thing to hear. I'm already suffering and now you're like basically stepping on me by saying something like, how could you fall for that? Help people who want, who want to be better. What kind of things can they say instead? The victim is up against these huge organized crime rings. We can understand that mam didn't do something wrong. She was the victim of a crime. Let's call the bank, have them try to take action. Call the police, insist that they take a report,. even if they say it's a civil matter, insist on that report