Your Needs for Love From Your Ma Aren't Completed

As a child, you didn't get to make contact with these needs. You've never completed the stage of intimacy and love from another person. So what you have there is known in gestelt as unfinished business. And this new girl friend you have, it's like things go really, really well an a date. And then when it gets to the end of the day, every time you folk it up, you say something stupid,. You do something to try and make her jealous. Each time it ends in her rejecting you or her disapproving of you.