The Heart of It Is a Failure to Repair

Ten percent of all sexual encounters end in some kind of failure. The problem isn't a failure, the problem his not beeng able to talk about the failure. If you can't talk about it, you can't repair it. So you can see couples that have failures that are normal, but they can'ttalk about it. Now they got to protect themselves. I don't want to get rejected again. I don’t want to feel like i'm failing again. It really puts up a wall that suppresses the longings,. In a drive to kind of have what's so beautiful.