Do All Unwonted Sexual Behaviors Provide Relief?

When we're working with unwonted sexual behavior, i canna think in terms of just the two rs of relief and a repetition, or re enactment. So do all unsexual behaviors provide something of relief? Absolutely. We wouldn't choose them if at some level they didn't allow us level of escape from the difficulties of life. But then we also have to step into what is the end result, virtually every time, of indulging in this behavior. And that would be shame, its judgment, its degradation of self, degradation of others. Even in ruin, as much as i despise it, at one level, it's who i am. Well, it's what i'm