I assume that you can make the right decision every time, which is completely ofyorse. What we want to do is we want to, we can't make decisions about everything. So what we need to do in order to lead a good life is focus on the things that actually do matter. Not going abroad is not going to down the house, right? You no, giving up your if you have no savings and your kids are all in school, and giving up your job and no income to try tho start up could bring down the house but you could learn so much from it.