How Do We Help Our Friends Grieve?

All of my work is an act either aggression or passive aggression. My tedjock was for anyone who has been through something hard and has been told to sort of like get over it or to rush through it. And i also wonder how many times i was ungracious with with people who i thought were feeling things wrong or experiencing things wrong right? So you talk about how uncomfortable grief is, not only for those that are going it, but for the family members or the close friends. It's uncomfortable for them too. How do we help our friends grieve? Is there an effective way to do that? I ges i man tell you story, ban illustrated with te story,