The Pressure to Live With Your Boyfriend

i feel like part of it is my only other long-term relationship was also three and a half years so i think i'm feeling this like internal pressure to kind of figure things out and ask the big questions like can i actually live with him. If you could move into a new place you could set up a new dynamic right and that's your place together but if it's his place these are his habits it's unlikely that they're going to change when you move in unless you're able to communicate to him how important it is to you maybe without being emotional. It doesn't have to be you yelling at him or bickering or picking him apart it don't have to have that

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