Is It Happening to You or for You?

i believe every struggle we face in our lives, at its core, contains some element of this tru from the little things to the big things. Is it happening to you or for you? Is it or an opportunity? Is set back for a chance to reset? I want to bring to light the story, one that i've told before, but it's so perfectly representative of the conversation of jim ron talking about two others in an abusive household. One spent his life chasing snakes, bitter, resentful. The other used it as a lever or stepping stone.