i find myself a lot of times in these rooms where i am the most jewish person in the room. Even if i disagree with them, i care about them. So again, it's about being right in being effective. You have a lot of people you can talk to that you can't pray with and people you can pray with but you can't talk to. That really, i really, i'm going to take that away with me becons like, i'm fortunate that i have, i might say, meditated,. But i've sat in silence with richard roer before, and i was like an an rob bell and other people like that. It supernov but