We just tell ourselves that it matters. All the stuff about where Thanksgiving is going to be and how could you have said this or why did you do this? I think there's all kinds of fears that get in the way, which is where your stoicism code of courage would probably really come in handy. Yeah, isn't that the Brené Brown thing that basically the scariest thing in the world is not like rushing into battle? It's just being the slightest bit emotionally vulnerable. But that's the hardest thing to do.