Is the Primary Caregivers Resourceful?

It really takes a, you know, more than one person to raise a child. Is the primary care giver resource enough to be fully present and attentive for the baby? I don't know that they can be apathetic if they've not carried a childr experiencing that. And then post nataly, im the dealing with depression, some people, anxiety, some people. But exhaustion. Both parents are going to be exhausted. We're not really set fora one person raising the child. It's possible, it's duable. The couple has to be good a at co managing distress, co creating a excitement and pleasure and a and in also resourcing each other day to day