The Benefits of Discomfort in Abusive Men

Many abusive men do not. attempt to control circumstances in such a way that they can be comfortable again, so don't feel out of place. The second kind of goes in hand in hand with that, and that is the substitution of respect with fear. Like i'll tell guys, you know, they really want to be respected, but they'll settle for fear. It's this claim of peace. And it's destructive and a living in turmoil.