Are You Choosing Your Family in All Its Components?

In some ways, we can think that we've changed a lot overtime. I think people are so much more open minded to day a. There's been a shift towards the idea that you get to choose your family in all its components. But even in the situation where you enjoy and like the dictator, that set of options that you really get to express is still so limited. Ah, but also it makes a lot of sense why it doesn't go as smoothly as we might hope it does.