How to Make Silences More Comfortable

i think this is a good way to approach event invitations. I just sent the same copied and pasted message to five different watsap groups, and whoever turns up turns up. And not taking it personally, if certain people don't show up to youru to your special event,. i wasn't really following the the thread of the conversation between you guys. So i guess we'll put the question out to you guys. Can you drop us an email and let us know if you have any a conversational hacks that, on a surface level, will help you connect with people moreto maybe have more comfortable silences?