"Just notice the BS in your own mind. Notice the thoughts, the assumptions, the quick meanings we give things," he says. "It's very helpful to be self aware of the meanings you give things." We often have just kind of operating background that gives us presumptions about situations and people. He suggests three or four important relationships for you to imagine running in one way or another.

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