Abbon: Do we actually want vulnerable men? We have to address the question before it, that i dn't see enough people discussing. What work have we done as a society and its individuals to create relationship dynamics where men are safe to be more vulnerable?, she asks. Even frann admitted that opening herself up to her male partner's vulnerability was more difficult than she anticipated.
Women say they want a man who is open and willing to be vulnerable, but is this really true? Back in 2019, Shan participated in a YouTube discussion with Aba and Preach where they covered this very topic.The conversation amassed over 1.3M views and nearly 9000 comments. Two years later, Shan, Aba & Preach re-visit this under-represented dialogue about why some men don't yet feel safe to show their vulnerable side with their partners.